I began this blog on 7 July 2008 to recount some of my thoughts, feelings and actions, as well as medical events, of the year leading up to my GRS/SRS.
On 7 July 2009, Dr. Marci Bowers very successfully performed my surgery.
In the early days of my recovery, I decided to continue this blog to describe what I experience and learn as I begin to live as a "new woman."
Showing posts with label misrepresentation of trans people in media. Show all posts
Showing posts with label misrepresentation of trans people in media. Show all posts
You heard her on "Same Love", that powerful song about gay marriage that became a surprise number one hit for the hip-hop duo Macklemore and Ryan Lewis two years ago. Having just released her new solo album, Heart On My Sleeve, the singer-songwriter says that she would like to see trans people more accurately represented. That would "make it easier, I think, on a lot of people who may be struggling in transitioning". She says that often, when watches "something that's supposed to represent a trans person", she thinks, "God, you missed it. You missed it. You had a great opportunity". Even if I didn't love her singing, I'd love to hear more from her just for talking about misrepresentations of trans people as a missed "opportunity"!
Have standards at journalism schools declined even more than I'd imagined? I'm asking that question after seeing the way a major metropolitan newspaper--one that was once one of the most respected in all of journalism--covered the murder of a transgender woman. For starters, Cleveland Plain-Dealer reporter John Caniglia used male pronouns in referring to Cemia "Ci Ci" Dove. He also referred to her as "Carl Acoff" in his dispatch on 29 April. The male pronouns have since been removed but, in the story, she is still identified as "Carl Acoff." Mr. Caniglia very cleverly got around having to use female pronouns by referring to her as a "self-identified transgender woman." Oh, but it gets better. This Caniglia person simply had to tell his readers that Ci Ci was dressed in a Betty Boop tank top, three black bras and a light hooded jacket. As if this isn't enough to trivialize her, he also mentions that she was naked from the waist down. I don't think I have to tell you what sort of picture he and his editors were trying to paint. Also, he mentions some previous criminal activity. I neither condone nor excuse such behavior, but trans people--especially the young--are often driven to desperate measures, especially if their families and former friends and acquaintances have disavowed them. I suspect that such was the case for Ms. Dove for, as Caniglia reports, attempts to contact her family were unsuccessful. After such sensationalism, the fact that she died so brutally and lay at the bottom of a pond for, probably, a month or more, is almost lost by its placement later in the article. What's really sad is that, as awful as it is to be repeatedly stabbed, tied to a block of concrete and dumped into a freezing pond, it doesn't even come close to being one of the most gruesome attacks ever committed on a trans person. To add insult to injury, it wasn't bad enough for Caniglia to simply be sensationalistic and to trade in stereotypes. His editors brought the quality of his story even further down with this headline: "Brutal Slaying Marks Clevelander's Fight for Acceptance." What the fuck? The stabbing ended Ci Ci Dove's life, at age twenty. I mean, if we follow that editor's line of reasoning and have his or her command of the English language, we would say that the assassination of Robert F. Kennedy in 1968 marked the end of his Presidential campaign. What the hell are they teaching (or not teaching) in J-schools these days?
Today I saw Mom, Dad and Mike. They were all understandably tired: The last couple of days have been busy for them and the weather had bee...
Here I Am!
Crosby Street, NYC, 8 June 2010. By Bruce Kennedy
Welcome to Transwoman Times
On 7 July 2009, Dr. Marci Bowers performed male-to-female (MTF) gender-reasssignment surgery (GRS) on me.
One year before that, I began Transwoman Times to recount the medical, emotional, spiritual and other events of the year of my life leading up to my surgery.
The moment I was well enough to boot up my laptop, I decided to continue this blog. For the moment, I plan to describe my experiences during my "first" year of my "new" life. And, perhaps, I will continue this blog beyond that.
Most of what you read in Transwoman Times will be written by me. If I haven't written it, it will have come from a song, poem, or any other piece of writing ranging from a classic novel to a tabloid article. These references will be duly acknowledged: I might borrow, but I don't steal (or beg).
Although I started Transwoman Times for selfish reasons (i.e., I enjoy writing and I want an outlet for my feelings and a record of my experience.) , I hope you find this interesting, inspirational or of some other value. Maybe it will apall or simply bore you. In any case, please keep on reading and pass this along to friends, co-workers, in-laws and whomever else you want to read this. And, if you want to link this to your website, please feel free to do so, and just let me know. (Hey, I might be interested in your website!)
So, I hope this enlightens, entertains or moves you in some other way. If nothing else, you are reading about someone who is engaged by the process of her life. I hope you are, too!
After My First Month
By Regina Varin-Mingano. In Uncle George's restaurant, Astoria, NY: 7 August 2009
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Wherever you are, I hope you find love and acceptance.
A journey that neither I nor anyone else could have foreseen has brought me here today.
You can follow this journey on my blogs: "Mid-Life Cycling" and "Transwoman Times." I am also serializing a book on another blog, "Memories and Those Who Stayed."